Well prepared for the new family member

You have made the decision to take a dog into your home. Perhaps you are a little unsure about what it will be like to have an animal in your own space. You may still have a few questions that need to be answered. For example, what does a dog need and what important conditions need to be in place?

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Is a dog really right for your lifestyle?

Before bringing the animal home, please consider carefully whether all family members are in favor of getting a dog. Is this decision not based on a moment of weakness or out of necessity, and are you aware of all the consequences? And above all: Are the conditions in your home suitable for a dog? If you haven't thought this through carefully, getting a dog can quickly become problematic. For example, if you work and your dog has to be left alone for eight or more hours a day. Dogs are pack animals by nature, so this will not make them particularly happy, and they will also lack balance and appropriate activity. If a dog is bored, it can get up to all sorts of mischief at home.

So, once again, the question is: does a dog really fit into your life? Here are a few more helpful questions you should ask yourself in advance:

  • Can you keep a dog where you live (consider legal issues and ask your landlord if necessary)?
  • Is there enough space for your dog to run around? Are there places near you where your dog can run around freely?
  • Can you and everyone else in your household live with a dog for health reasons, or are there allergies, physical impairments, or other exclusion criteria?
  • A dog costs money, not only to buy but also to care for, and that for many years. Do you have the necessary funds?
  • Are you willing to learn and inform yourself to ensure that your dog is well trained and cared for?
  • Do you have enough time and desire to spend your free time with and for the dog?
  • Does your job allow enough free time for a dog, and can you share the time you will spend with the animal with other family members?
  • Will your dog travel with you on vacation, or will you need a dog sitter?
  • A dog also makes a mess – can you live with that?
  • If you are getting a puppy, can you spend a lot of time with it in the first few weeks to give it a safe start in its new life with you?
  • Are you aware that a dog can live for 15 years or more and that you will also have to care for it through illness and old age?

Which dog should it be?

Once all questions have been answered, it is time to consider which dog to choose. Please do not just look at their appearance, but think carefully about which animal you can provide for given your current living situation. Do you live in a house with a garden or in a rented apartment without any green space? Are you a city person or a nature lover who enjoys spending time outdoors?

Different dog breeds differ not only in size and appearance. They also have typical character traits. Consider which type of dog suits your personality. Are you more of a laid-back person or are you athletically ambitious? Do you have the nerves for a cheeky creature, or would you prefer an animal that is calm and cuddly? It would be disastrous to bring a family member into your home for many years whose nature is completely opposite to your own. That would constantly test and challenge you.

Also ask yourself whether you want a puppy or whether an older animal from a shelter would be more suitable. Choosing your new companion requires thorough research to ensure you make the best decision for you.

It is important that everyone who will be involved with the dog is included in the decision and all considerations.

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What a dog needs when moving in

Before the dog moves in, you can go shopping. After all, you want your new roommate to feel comfortable. The following list shows what you should buy:

  • Dog basket or blanket as a place to lie down
  • Dog collar
  • Dog leash
  • Possibly a dog harness
  • Water and food bowls
  • An initial supply of dog food, appropriate for the breed, age, etc
  • Toys
  • Treats
  • Brush, comb (depending on breed and coat)
  • Dog crate or dog harness for car journeys

Of course, there is so much more that you may need at some point, but this shopping list will get you started.

A beautiful new life – a few tips for living together in harmony

Then the time has come: your new family member has moved in! The joy is immense. Now it's time to build trust and bond. To ensure that this goes well, devote as much time as possible to your dog, especially at the beginning. Puppies in particular should not be left alone for long periods during the first few weeks. Only gradually increase the amount of time your dog spends alone.

A dog training class can help you build a good relationship with your dog. Your dog can also learn a lot about social behavior there. Be loving with your dog, but be sure to set clear boundaries. Establish rules from the outset that your dog must follow—and you must follow too. Otherwise, your dog will feel insecure and will repeatedly test its boundaries. Be the "leader of the pack": act calmly, but with a strong presence.

Keep all important rules written down if you are training the dog with several family members, so that there are no misunderstandings. Once your dog has settled in, it will thank you for always knowing where it stands. Here are a few ideas for possible rules:

  • Treats between meals: yes or no?
  • Food from the table: yes or no?
  • On the bed and sofa: yes or no?
  • In every room in the house or apartment: yes or no?
  • What are the fixed meal times?
  • When is it time to go for a walk?
  • What counts as a toy—can he chew on old shoes and similar items?
  • Is the dog allowed to move around freely in the house at all times, or are there fixed rest times in its basket?
  • Should they be allowed to bark or should they be called off?
  • How much time alone is acceptable?

You can add to and change this list according to your needs.

And don't forget, the more consistent and confident you are in your actions and decisions, the more confidently your dog will find its place in the family.